| UMC’s Women Clergy: Sisterhood and Survival by Jean Caffey Lyles Ms. Lyles is Protestant editor for the Religious News Service in New York City. This article appeared in the Christian Century, February 7-14, 1979, p. 117. Copyright by the Christian Century Foundation and used by permission. Current articles and subscription information can be found at www.christiancentury.org. This material was prepared for Religion Online by Ted & Winnie Brock. Dallas. Just as
shivering football fans were leaving Dallas and its paralyzing ice storm after
the Cotton Bowl last month, some 650 United Methodist women ministers and
seminarians were arriving for what Indiana pastor Susan Ruach called “the
largest gathering of clergywomen in the history of the world.” No one had handy
a copy of The Guinness Book of World Records to confirm or dispute that
claim, and in fact one may surmise that a Holiness body like the Salvation Army
-- ordaining women since the 1880s -- has possibly assembled a larger crowd of
ordained women on some occasion. But at any rate, it was the largest such
“mainline” meeting anyone could recall. The United
Methodists have granted full ordination rights to females since 1956, but only
in this decade have women entered the ministry in appreciable numbers.
Presently 766 women are serving under appointment, and several hundred more are
enrolled in seminaries. The program planners for the four-day meeting on the
Southern Methodist University campus had designed a crowded agenda for the
participants -- including 50 or so male invitees. Both the formal
program and the informal corridor chatter offered ample evidence that women
clergy see themselves as bringing special gifts and graces to the practice of
ministry, but they believe that the church has not yet allowed them to make the
fullest use of those gifts both for their own professional development and for
the enrichment of the whole church. IOne of those
gifts is preaching. Clearly, anyone who bemoans the decline of the pulpit craft
has not been hanging out in the right sanctuaries. The styles of the white and
ethnic minority women who preached for the week’s services varied widely, but
some generalizations are possible. First of all, the best sermons were firmly
grounded in Scripture, applying the biblical word to the nitty-gritty of daily
life. The themes were often unapologetically autobiographical, using the
preacher’s own life experience as the starting point for theology. At their
best, these preachers were freed up from a dependence on a manuscript, and
style was as important as content in conveying the message. That style was
often warm, informal and colloquial, laced with humor. The preacher was sure of
herself and of her faith. There was a dramatic flair, an unselfconscious
exuberance in sharing the word. Women have assumed firm, strong, assertive
voices that carry to the back row of a sanctuary. Hearing a woman
preacher for the first time is a mind-blowing experience not yet encountered by
many Protestant congregations nor even by some female clergy. One of the great
values of meetings such as the Dallas gathering is in giving clergy an
opportunity to hear preaching by their peers. Some of those present were black
women who spread the idea that worship is not a spectator sport and that
preaching at its most effective is a participatory enterprise in which the
congregation plays a vital and vocal role. Serving as leaven in the loaf, black
women transformed the whole assembly. As the preacher shared with her
colleagues the joys and trials of being a clergywoman, there were not only nods
of assent but verbal responses signaling recognition of those experiences
common to all their lives: “Yes, that’s how it is for me too.” Liturgies for
the preaching services tended toward the traditional. Scriptural choices often
focused on women of the Bible -- Miriam, Deborah, Mary and Martha. Litanies
recalled the names of such revered women forebears as Mary McLeod Bethune and
Georgia Harkness. For the most part, ephemeral and folky guitar-songs ,were
eschewed in favor of solid fare from the Methodist hymnal. Hymns and liturgies
were determinedly nonsexist (“Substitute ‘Creator’ for ‘great Father’ in verse
4,” said the rubrics for one hymn in the order of worship). Occasionally God
was referred to, a bit self-consciously, as “she” -- but for the most part,
pronouns were carefully avoided. At this point
in their history, many women clergy are preoccupied with career issues -- with
survival or success -- in the United Methodist itinerant system. The dilemma
often involves the choice between ambition for upward mobility in a
hierarchical system and efforts to change that very system. Whereas most other
Protestant denominations operate under a “call” organization, with each
congregation hiring and firing pastors on its own, in United Methodism’s itinerant
plan, ministers are appointed to pastoral charges by the bishop. The
unemployment problems suffered by clergy in other denominations are minimized,
for under current United Methodist policy, every fully credentialed pastor is
guaranteed an appointment. But signing on with the itinerant arrangement means
accepting the bishop’s authority to determine where one will serve, and being
willing to go where one is sent. The ultimate in
“upward mobility” is the episcopacy, and inevitably the possibility of electing
the first woman bishop arose. Most-mentioned candidates Jeanne Audrey Powers,
one of the denomination’s ecumenical officers, and Barbara Troxell, a district
superintendent in California, have both served notice that they don’t want the
job in 1980, feeling they can be more effective in their present posts.
But a surprise candidate emerged when Michigan women urged District
Superintendent Marjorie Matthews to stand for election. Matthews, a petite
gray-haired establishmentarian and staunch defender of the itineracy, has a
reputation for being supportive of women who are more radical than she. “Open
itineracy,” an ideal often voiced, is seldom a reality: few women pastors are
appointed to churches of more than 300 members except in “associate” slots;
almost never has a woman served as senior pastor in a multiple-staff situation;
as for minority pastors, white churches of any size are seldom open to them. Is
“upward mobility” an aim worth striving for? Marjorie Matthews told the women
in her workshop: “There’s nothing wrong with ambition. Where do you see
yourself in the ministry ten years from now?” Perhaps the
best advertisement for women pastors is the satisfaction of congregations who
have enjoyed their leadership. When bishops have had the courage to appoint
women to pastoral slots, congregations have typically accepted them warmly.
Most women say that their chief problem is not lack of acceptance by laity, but
the hostility of male pastors who feel threatened by competition in a job
market with little room at the top. IISome 50 workshops
were offered during the convocation, including “life style” sharing sessions
for single, divorced, widowed, gay and “clergy couple” women; political
strategy sessions to write legislation for the UMC’s 1980 General Conference;
biblical hermeneutics; and liturgical dance. Some of the most popular workshops
dealt with such practical matters as financial planning and pension benefits,
management and administration, “power relationships” and “influencing the
system.” Many workshops
arrived at one of the crucial questions troubling United Methodism today: can
the itineracy system become more flexible, adapting to new strains, and yet
remain a viable system? “Appointability” is a key word, and whether single,
married to another minister or to a nonclergy professional, women are regarded
in the church hierarchy as “difficult to place.” Cabinets are becoming more
sensitive to the special needs of all clergy, and that fact may limit the
latitude in appointment-making. A divorced pastor whose spouse has custody of
the children desires an appointment nearby to facilitate weekend visits; the
“guy who has an allergy to walnut trees” must be sent to a church in a part of
the state where walnut trees do not grow. The pastor with a retarded child who
needs special schooling must not be moved to an area where such schooling is
not available. “Clergy
couples” -- with both husband and wife being ordained -- “are beginning to find
their label oppressive,” said one workshop participant. It causes them to be
regarded as an entity rather than as two pastors, and to be stereotyped as a
placement problem. Coordinating the career moves of a couple -- whether they
desire to serve a joint pastorate or separate parishes -- can be difficult. But
cabinets have been slow to acknowledge the seriousness of the two-career couple
problem when one of the members is clergy and one is nonclergy. When both are
ministers, the church bears responsibility for placing them both in jobs --
generally within driving distance of their shared parsonage. But when only one
partner is ordained, the church has no control over the other partner’s career,
and often fails to take it into consideration. The assumption has been that
when the minister must move, the spouse must follow. The system worked well for
many years with men who had nonworking wives, or wives whose careers as nurses
or schoolteachers were regarded as transportable from one town to another. The
two-career-couple crunch often forces a wrenching decision: “Which career is
more important?” The assumption that the male’s ambitions always take
precedence is being questioned, and couples are wrestling with the sacrifices
required when career goals conflict. The issue
generating the most anger against “the system’ seems to be the difficulties
faced by a woman raising children while serving full-time as pastor. Are
motherhood and ministry incompatible? Under present rules, clergy must take
appointments to full-time work. Women are pushing for part-time options to
enable them to devote time to child-rearing. And more enlightened couples are
seeing that part-time ministries could also allow male clergy to devote a major
block of time to parenting. Some women in their 30s have postponed pregnancy
until after the denomination’s 1980 General Conference in anticipation
of new legislation that will allow them to combine motherhood and ministry. A
church that has traditionally placed great emphasis on the family and on the
nurturing of children ought, say many women, to set an example by offering
flexible options for clergy parents. IIISome of the
week’s keynote speakers cautioned women not to work out their individual
ambitions at the expense of other women. Annette Hutchins-Felder noted the
tendency demonstrated by members of the white male structure to promote blacks
who identify with the white community, and to advance women who don’t identify
with the women’s movement. United Presbyterian Beverly Wildung Harrison of
Union Theological Seminary said: “Those of us who are middle-strata white women
will be invited in and rewarded precisely to the extent that we are willing to
become ‘one of the boys,’ sensitive to minimizing any rocking of the boat.” Jeanne Audrey
Powers, addressing issues of power, focused on the manner in which “dualistic
ways of thinking” have “run rampant in the church’s thought and action.” The
spirit/flesh, spiritual/material, sacred/secular, church/world dualisms by
implication lift one element up as superior, and denominate the other as
inferior. “As women,” she said, “we have allowed that kind of dualism to mark
our relationships to men in the church.” Rejecting
competitive win/lose models of power in which achievement is won at the expense
of others, Powers called for a new vision of power. One direction to follow in
shaping a cooperative model is to recognize that more power comes to us as we
help our sisters express more of theirs.” Women must “affirm their support for
one another in public ways,” she emphasized. For example, “If you’re invited to
do something publicly and cannot, have you a list in your head of other women
who could be invited instead?” Women should make use of “affirm signals” to
give support to one another and to other minorities. “Do you give ‘listening
support’ by the expression on your face? . . . If you’re often in the position
of being a ‘token,’ are you able to bring in other sisters and brothers who
never have your opportunities?” Such practice of “sisterhood” works to empower
other women. The task of
getting beyond individual survival or success to the kind of sisterhood Powers
described will not be easy. With seminary enrollments now totaling from 25 to
50 per cent women, the next four years could be crucial as the numbers of
females seeking ordination and appointment double. The United Methodists, like
other Protestant bodies, face the challenge of broadening the image of clergy
leadership in order to welcome the special gifts and graces brought by the
growing company of women who seek their profession serving the faith. |